Difference between infatuation and Love.

It all sounds so wonderful that we may not see
the problem when infatuation is mistaken for
love. But it's a big problem, and that's why
it’s so important to understand the differences
between love and infatuation. Here they are:

Love develops gradually over time. Infatuation
occurs almost instantaneously.
Love can last a long time. It becomes deeper
and more powerful over time. Infatuation is
powerful, but short-lived.
Love accepts the whole person, imperfections
and all. Infatuation flourishes on perfection –
you have an idealized image of your partner
and you only show your partner your good
side.
Love is more than physical attraction.
Infatuation focuses on the physical.
Love is energizing. Infatuation is draining.
Love improves your overall disposition.
Infatuation brings out jealousy and
obsessiveness. It causes you to neglect other
relationships.
Loves survives arguments. Infatuation glosses
over arguments.
Love considers the other person. Infatuation is
selfish.
Love is being in love with a person.
Infatuation is being in love with love.

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