12 Reaaon Why Nice Guys Don't Always Get The Girl.

The truth behind why nice guys sometimes finish
last!
It almost seems like most men fall into either the
bad boy or the nice guy category. In my opinion,
the ideal man is neither, but walks that fine line
between the two. While some women say they
want a nice guy, they usually end up dating bad
boys. Here's why!
1. Their Personalities Don't Seem Genuine.
Nice guys are too nice. No one can always be
that nice unless they're a saint. They are busy
being nice instead of being real and women
instinctually don't trust that. Bad boys "keep it
real." Nice guys don't want to upset the apple
cart.
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2. They Don't Have Self-Respect!
No one respects a doormat. Nice guys don't set
boundaries or make any real demands. A bad boy
doesn't let a woman walk all over him or control
him. Women can't respect a man they can
control. No respect equals no attraction.
3. They're SO Predictable—Which Is Just Boring!
Most people lead boring, predictable lives, so
they're attracted to people who are exciting and a
bit unpredictable. Bad boys are always a
challenge. Nice guys are never a challenge.
Predictable plus no excitement plus no challenge
equals I prefer a bad boy.
4. Loving A Bad Boy Is In Our Genes.
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Women are designed to nurture. However, instead
of doing this with children, they often end up
doing it with bad boys. They think their love will
save them. Nice guys rarely need to be saved.
5. Women Like To Feel Needed.
Nice guys don't usually need "to be fixed". Bad
boys usually do, so they become a project. Some
women think if they can "create" the perfect man,
he will never leave them. Also, if they're busy
fixing someone else, they don't have to look at
what needs to be fixed in their own lives.
6. Their Sperm Is Weak.
Women are designed to procreate with the
strongest possible genes. Bad boys are sending
an unconscious message that they have great
genes, so they're not afraid of losing the woman
by misbehaving. Nice guys are sending a
message that they don't think their genes are
good enough, so they won't misbehave.
7. They Have A Fear Of intimacy .
If a woman is afraid of intimacy, she
subconsciously knows she can avoid it with a bad
boy, since she can never get close enough to him
to have to go there. A nice guy will eventually
want a commitment, and that's scary.
8. They Sometimes Have Low Self-Esteem.
We don't feel comfortable with people who treat
us better than we treat ourselves. If you don't
think much of yourself, the bad boy is simply
reinforcing your negative belief. A nice guy is
treating you in a way you're not familiar with.
9. The Sex Isn't As Mind-Blowing.
Women feel a nice guy won't be good in bed.
They sometimes like to be manhandled and think
a nice guy won't be able to take control and get
the job done. A bad boy comes across as being
able to deliver, even though that may not always
be the case.
10. Bad Boys Are Totally Sexy .
Have you ever seen a bad boy who wasn't hot?
I'm sure there are a few, but they wouldn't be
able to get away with half the stuff they did if
they didn't look so good. Meanwhile, when a
woman describes someone as a nice guy, she
means, "He's not hot."
11. They Aren't As Charming.
Nice guys don't always know what to say and are
sometimes at a loss for words. Bad boys can be
very charming and know exactly what women
want to hear. However, they eventually switch
over to being selfish. By the time they reveal their
true colors, the woman has fallen for them and
has a hard time letting go.
12. They're Not As Strong Physically.
Historically, men have protected women —
physically and otherwise. Bad boys give the
illusion of being able to protect women, while
with nice guys, women aren't so sure. Life is all
about balance. Until men learn how to do that,
more often than not, women will choose the bad
boy, until they realize that his bad qualities
outweigh his good ones.